How I Became An Expert on Relationships

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What to Look for in a Dating Coach

Looking for a dating coach? There are many out there, but here’s what: there are the good ones and the not so. After all, people don’t just wake up one day and realize they can help someone with their social life. They need experience, training and actual skills.

In short, research about the different coaches who interest you, and pick one whose philosophies jive with yours. When we talk about philosophies, we mean the beliefs you have and the goals you want to work at.

It’s always wise to talk to people who have already worked with your prospective coach. As they say, nothing’s better than hearing first-hand accounts. Of course, before you make any major steps, ensure that you’re prepared to be coached.
Valuable Lessons I’ve Learned About Dating

A good dating coach will gradually but effectively pull you out of your comfort zone to help you grow as a person. You should have an open mind and be ready to test your own limitations in terms of your social abilities. Part of this preparedness is knowing beforehand that it will not be an ride.
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With several disreputable coaching programs out there, do your homework before deciding on one. A coach or program that has been around for at least five years is probably a good one. After all, with the high-level competition that characterizes this business, only the best will be able to get that far.

Check the coaches’ experience level.

How long have they worked as coaches? Did they receive mainly positive reviews from their students? See if the head coaches themselves will be training you, or the less-experienced junior coaches.

Before you begin any coaching program, spend some prepping yourself up. Position yourself in not-so-comfortable social situations, talk to people you wouldn’t usually deal with, and just move out of your comfort zone. This will be helpful in preparing you for the program, and it will also make the experience not as overwhelming.

One thing you need to keep in mind is that dating coaches are hardly all created equal. Having found one doesn’t mean all the others are going to be the same. These professionals can vary significantly when it comes to their background, expertise and even in their charges. The best way of finding the right coach for you is to have two or three candidates (three or more can be confusing).

Finally, listen to your gut. What does it have to say about the coach you intend to work with? Even if everything else checks out, don’t move forward if there’s something inside you that’s bothering you. It is completely important – critical even – that you are comfortable with your dating coach and click together. It’s easy to know that this business relationship is bound to fail otherwise.